Roller Skates and Self-Belief

Roller Skates and Self-Belief

No one would ever think to describe me as an athlete. I was never one to get sweaty in PE or sign up for team sports. Currently, my idea of a workout is a 4-mile speed walk with my friend. I didn’t even learn to ride a bike until I was twelve years old… So when I was...
The Mental Load of Laundry

The Mental Load of Laundry

Laundry is an insufferable, eternal nightmare. Laundry laughs in the face of the concept of ‘inbox zero.’ Anyone fortunate enough to have clothes to wash knows the truth of this burden. So imagine me locking up for the night a few weeks ago, and I noticed an eerie...
Precious Crap At The Bottom Of The Drawer

Precious Crap At The Bottom Of The Drawer

You never know what lessons you might learn from twenty-year-old nonsense at the bottom of your drawer. Walking through the mall circa 2005, I was minding my own business, and this woman at a kiosk grabbed my attention and hard-sold me this nail treatment kit I had no...
Sorry, A Dental Cleaning Is Not Self-Care

Sorry, A Dental Cleaning Is Not Self-Care

As lovely a person my dental hygienist is, I don’t consider my cleanings as ‘me time.’ My dental hygienist told me that she’s heard from plenty of moms that going to the dentist is a welcome reprieve from the chaos at home. They look forward to the relaxation of...
The Highway Or The Bugs?

The Highway Or The Bugs?

Some hear noise pollution; I hear an invitation to listen more deeply. Years ago, a neighbor told me she wanted to move because she could hear the highway, and it drove her crazy. The highway? That was not something that bothered me from my house, even though we lived...