ove ice climbing on frozen waterfalls. Often you can hear the water rushing underneath. You can almost sense the motion. It feels alive.
But what happens when you can’t sense the motion? What then?
I received an email from a coaching client late last week. She felt frustrated. She’d made a lot of progress in 2023; scored a lot of victories. Now, though, she said, she couldn’t see much forward progress. She felt like she’d lost momentum.
I wondered aloud whether it was just the season of things.
The late great thought leader Jim Rohn spoke of the seasons of change; the seasons of our lives that always come; those seasons that always repeat themselves. The rhythm of things. The springtime of planting and new life; the summer of cultivation and care; the fall of reaping and the harvest; the winter of darkness, contemplating and planning.
The seasons of things. Interconnected. Locked in balance. Necessary one to the other.
I look outside my window at winter’s frozen landscape here in the northeast. There doesn’t seem to be much of anything going on. But I know on some particularly warm day, not many weeks from now, flowers will bolt from the ground. And spring will be here.
Not by accident. Not without the work of winter.
Spring doesn’t just happen. Stuff’s going on in the ground even now.
Momentum. Just unseen.
I asked my client whether she was continuing to do the work… attending to her daily practices; whether she was ‘showing up’ even though she didn’t ‘feel the love.’
“Of course,” she said. Which was the right answer. (At least as far as her coach was concerned.)
Because, as I’ve written many times, it is the showing up, even in the face of failure – and especially when we can’t see the progress – that matters most.
The small, tiny, incremental, perhaps imperceptible, steps over time. The ultra-marathon of life.
We might say we hate the winter. But the winter always comes.
And so the spring.
I told my client (and myself): Do the work. Keep at the work.
Hold fast the vision.
And trust more.
Just trust. In the rhythm of things.
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